From my past (and recent) experiences, I have learned that:
"People who care about you will always listen to what you have to say"
By listening, they show trust and compassion for your thoughts and your situation. Those who would make an assumption rather than ask were never really concerned with you. Assumption are just shortcuts we take to avoid committing time to someone else. Do not be hurt by this because it is hard to care for people (although we should still try to care about everyone). Some people are better at it than others. Also, caring can make your heart heavy, especially when the people you care about are hurting.
So, if you care then make sure you care enough to listen (even when you feel like you don't need to). Try to remember what is means to the other person. And, be conscious of how you feel when the people who are supposed to care and be your friends don't listen to you.
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